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    Re: So it's over

    As of today she came he picked up my son so I could be at work.
    I was four hours late but I am here none the less.
    She had to give me a ride to work and during that time we have figured out a few quick things.
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    We will no longer live together for the time being.
    2.
    We will try and see one another being that we both have love for one another.
    3.
    She is trying to get assistance from the state for our kid but in the meantime we have no intentions to bring us or our child into the court system and I will pay her (documented by check book and my daily blog I am keeping) whatever we figure out to make sure my son is taken care of fully. 4. We are going to split the child 50/50 and will be sitting down this evening to hash out the in and outs of a schedule.
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    We are both attached to a lease of the APT we are in so we will try and figure that out as well.


    All in all I think things might get better.
    I am going to move forward with my life and let her do her own thing for awhile. As the old saying goes, if you love something let it go free and if it comes back to you it's truly love!
    I have a big feeling that old saying relates exactly to my set of circumstances right now.

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    Thanks for the update my friend.

    I hope this doesn't ring hollow, however, keep on keepin on.
    I've seen some wierd stuff over my live and believe it or not, it will get better.

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    Json.. I think you both are taking the right approach.. let the emotions cool a bit and maybe there is a chance that things may come around.. this might show her it is time to "grow up" a bit so to speak. Give it some time and try to work through this.. who knows.. it might even become a bonding experience between you both. Life has a funny way about it.

    Good luck and may it all turn out for the best.

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    Update:

    So now a week as bypassed so I figured I can send out an update.


    Lots of music, booze, and plenty of thoughts have crossed my mind since my last post.
    Sometimes i wish I was able to play music to help release the things I feel deep down.
    Sometimes I wish I can speak the words that make sense to not just the people I care about but even to myself.
    I am lost confused and just down right heart broken.
    There is nothing worse then loving soemthing so much but not receiving the same in return.
    It's not the first time I have experienced heartbreak but even the 2nd time around it's just as difficult as the first time.
    Really all it comes down to is I have this deep down desire to have her back now that she has left.
    Maybe in due time things will get easier but right now it's an emotional struggle.


    Anyway, thanks everyone for listening to my sob story and as much as I hate the idea of putting things public this way it don't take away the emotional side of what is occuring in my head.

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    Which isn’t all that far off considering she is only 23 and it seems she’s going through her mid 20 life crisis.
    I have had two younger girlfriends with the same age distance that you had. I understand what you are talking about. Went through it myself. Having kids makes it worse. Wish you the best.

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    Re: So it's over

    "Json" wrote:
    Update:

    So now a week as bypassed so I figured I can send out an update.


    Lots of music, booze, and plenty of thoughts have crossed my mind since my last post.
    Sometimes i wish I was able to play music to help release the things I feel deep down.
    Sometimes I wish I can speak the words that make sense to not just the people I care about but even to myself.
    I am lost confused and just down right heart broken.
    There is nothing worse then loving soemthing so much but not receiving the same in return.
    It's not the first time I have experienced heartbreak but even the 2nd time around it's just as difficult as the first time.
    Really all it comes down to is I have this deep down desire to have her back now that she has left.
    Maybe in due time things will get easier but right now it's an emotional struggle.


    Anyway, thanks everyone for listening to my sob story and as much as I hate the idea of putting things public this way it don't take away the emotional side of what is occuring in my head.
    I lost a girlfriend of 4 years and it hurt for a long time but I soon realized that is was just never meant to be. The thing you gotta realize is that you can't control her feelings. You need to focus on making yourself happy again. Since you are a Viking fan maybe I can help. I have an extra season ticket and I am more than happy to take you to a game. I can even scoop you in Madison. It is basically on the way. Which game sounds interesting to you? I know I talked to you about this before. I remember you mentioned to me that you never have gone to a viking game or any NFL game. Sorry the Packer game is out.

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    I lost a girlfriend of 4 years and it hurt for a long time but I soon realized that is was just never meant to be. The thing you gotta realize is that you can't control her feelings. You need to focus on making yourself happy again. Since you are a Viking fan maybe I can help. I have an extra season ticket and I am more than happy to take you to a game. I can even scoop you in Madison. It is basically on the way. Which game sounds interesting to you? I know I talked to you about this before. I remember you mentioned to me that you never have gone to a viking game or any NFL game. Sorry the Packer game is out.
    Wow, that would be one of the coolest things ever.
    I am really not picky and any game would be awesome.
    I thank you for your gratitude and would be very grateful to come with sometime.
    I know it's something most of us have went throughat some point in our lives.
    Now a days it seems to be normal.
    Again, in due time things will get better.

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    "Json" wrote:
    I lost a girlfriend of 4 years and it hurt for a long time but I soon realized that is was just never meant to be. The thing you gotta realize is that you can't control her feelings. You need to focus on making yourself happy again. Since you are a Viking fan maybe I can help. I have an extra season ticket and I am more than happy to take you to a game. I can even scoop you in Madison. It is basically on the way. Which game sounds interesting to you? I know I talked to you about this before. I remember you mentioned to me that you never have gone to a viking game or any NFL game. Sorry the Packer game is out.
    Wow, that would be one of the coolest things ever.
    I am really not picky and any game would be awesome.
    I thank you for your gratitude and would be very grateful to come with sometime.
    I know it's something most of us have went throughat some point in our lives.
    Now a days it seems to be normal.
    Again, in due time things will get better.
    Just let me know which dates you would be open too. I am sure you would have to plan early since your schedule could be hectic now. I would suggest a warm weather game. Makes tailgating that much better. My girl is going with me to the home opener. I would suggest the Carolina (Sep. 14th) or the Detroit (Oct. 12th) game.

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    I lost a girlfriend of 4 years and it hurt for a long time but I soon realized that is was just never meant to be. The thing you gotta realize is that you can't control her feelings. You need to focus on making yourself happy again. Since you are a Viking fan maybe I can help. I have an extra season ticket and I am more than happy to take you to a game. I can even scoop you in Madison. It is basically on the way. Which game sounds interesting to you? I know I talked to you about this before. I remember you mentioned to me that you never have gone to a viking game or any NFL game. Sorry the Packer game is out.

    Wow, that would be one of the coolest things ever.
    I am really not picky and any game would be awesome.
    I thank you for your gratitude and would be very grateful to come with sometime.
    I know it's something most of us have went throughat some point in our lives.
    Now a days it seems to be normal.
    Again, in due time things will get better.



    Just let me know which dates you would be open too. I am sure you would have to plan early since your schedule could be hectic now. I would suggest a warm weather game. Makes tailgating that much better. My girl is going with me to the home opener. I would suggest the Carolina (Sep. 14th) or the Detroit (Oct. 12th) game.
    Out of the two you put up I'd prefer to go and see the Carolina game on Sep 14th.
    I can easily get to that game.

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    "Json" wrote:
    I lost a girlfriend of 4 years and it hurt for a long time but I soon realized that is was just never meant to be. The thing you gotta realize is that you can't control her feelings. You need to focus on making yourself happy again. Since you are a Viking fan maybe I can help. I have an extra season ticket and I am more than happy to take you to a game. I can even scoop you in Madison. It is basically on the way. Which game sounds interesting to you? I know I talked to you about this before. I remember you mentioned to me that you never have gone to a viking game or any NFL game. Sorry the Packer game is out.

    Wow, that would be one of the coolest things ever.
    I am really not picky and any game would be awesome.
    I thank you for your gratitude and would be very grateful to come with sometime.
    I know it's something most of us have went throughat some point in our lives.
    Now a days it seems to be normal.
    Again, in due time things will get better.



    Just let me know which dates you would be open too. I am sure you would have to plan early since your schedule could be hectic now. I would suggest a warm weather game. Makes tailgating that much better. My girl is going with me to the home opener. I would suggest the Carolina (Sep. 14th) or the Detroit (Oct. 12th) game.
    Out of the two you put up I'd prefer to go and see the Carolina game on Sep 14th.
    I can easily get to that game.
    You got it bro. Be prepared for drinking and the Vikes kicking some ass.

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