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    Relationship problems...

    Well boys(and gals) i've come here from time to time to get a friendly word on some of my relationship problems. The last time was a 2 year relationship ending. This time a little different.

    Been dating this girl that was out of a relationship, been together I guess 2 months. We live in seperate towns. She went on vacation I guess last wednesday we talked the whole time she was gone, she was on her way back monday. Her last text to me was "Miss you babe i'll be home in a few hours", I responded by telling her sounds good just give me a call when you get home. She said "alright".....Haven't heard from her since....

    I've tried calling texting nothing....

    Heres the two kickers, her uncle who she was not close with passed on monday so that might have something to do with it? Her ex-b/f who she left for me lives near her....


    Just not good with this stuff. But I kind of get the feeling the ex is in the picture. You'd think she would let me know. Guess I should have seen this coming a mile away..........


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    Re: Relationship problems...

    Women, can't live withem, can't live without em........

    So many things could have happened.
    I wouldn't do anything until I heard from the young lady and talked things out with her.
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    Re: Relationship problems...

    Just be happy that it is not 5 years. I would say wait it out. Could be anything. She could have lost the phone.

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    Re: Relationship problems...

    For now, I'd say to try to keep your head straight - don't jump to any conclusions and let things work themselves out for now.
    Don't harass her; let her contact you.
    She obviously has a reason for her distance right now.

    Just chill out about it for now.
    There are a million 'okay' things that can cause her not to call right away and a few ones that aren't in your favor.


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    Re: Relationship problems...

    "marstc09" wrote:
    Just be happy that it is not 5 years. I would say wait it out. Could be anything. She could have lost the phone.
    She could have lost her cell, but rumor has it some people still use landline phones. I have a cell, but it's old and if there could be dust on it because it never rings, there would be.
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    Re: Relationship problems...

    Don't listen to the lost cell phone bit. In this day and age, a lost cell phone is not an excuse. Things like Twitter, facebook, myspace and other networking sites exist for her to get a message to you. I think it has more to do with the uncle not the boyfriend. I it's the ex, she would simply hide it from you. She wouldn't make the growing rift between you so obvious. It maybe the uncle, as everyone handles death differently.

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    I would like to point out that I don't expect this relationship to last. I have dated a large amount of women and the missing days of contact typically leads to a delayed but eventually split. A famous, untalented rapper once said...Girls are like buses, miss one, next 15 mins another one coming.
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    It's all good.
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    Re: Relationship problems...

    I still say get the details before you judge too much.


    Yeah she could get in contact if she wanted to.
    People grieve differently; I don't know her so I can't speak for how she handles things.

    In my line of work, I've seen pretty much everything you could imagine....


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    Re: Relationship problems...

    "Vikestand" wrote:
    Well boys(and gals) i've come here from time to time to get a friendly word on some of my relationship problems. The last time was a 2 year relationship ending. This time a little different.

    Been dating this girl that was out of a relationship, been together I guess 2 months. We live in seperate towns. She went on vacation I guess last wednesday we talked the whole time she was gone, she was on her way back monday. Her last text to me was "Miss you babe i'll be home in a few hours", I responded by telling her sounds good just give me a call when you get home. She said "alright".....Haven't heard from her since....

    I've tried calling texting nothing....

    Heres the two kickers, her uncle who she was not close with passed on monday so that might have something to do with it? Her ex-b/f who she left for me lives near her....


    Just not good with this stuff. But I kind of get the feeling the ex is in the picture. You'd think she would let me know. Guess I should have seen this coming a mile away..........
    Not to criticize, but she sounds a little bit flaky.
    I'd move on. Good luck!
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