Thread: Obsessed With Sex - The Cajun Story

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[size=18px]A freak accident that left my son obsessed with sex[/size]

By BECKY SHEAVES, Daily Mail 09:03am 4th July 2006

An army skiing accident left Alexander Laing, 31, with severe damage to the frontal lobes of his brain. This area controls social and moral judgment, and Alexander, of High Wycombe, Buckinghamshire, has become reckless in his sexual behaviour, losing his inhibitions. Here, his stepmother Deryth, 72, tells BECKY SHEAVES how his worried family has coped.

When I saw Alexander after the accident, I was aghast. He was in intensive care, unconscious and covered in tubes. It was awful. But the Army doctor reassured my husband, Tony, and me that when he woke up he'd be the same as he'd always been.

If only that had been true. Instead, six years later, we have learned what brain injury can do to a fit, confident young man who had his whole life ahead of him.

Alexander made a fantastic physical recovery, but the damage to his brain has had an extraordinary effect on his sexual behaviour — he has completely lost his inhibitions.

We were warned that even though Alexander's intelligence could remain intact, his social behaviour could alter radically. But we didn't realise that it would free up his sexual desires.

Alexander was obsessed with sex, but in no position to have a real relationship. He was still physically infirm, mentally vulnerable, impulsive and easily upset.

He got himself a computer, but soon ran up a £600 bill looking at internet pornography. Then he attacked one of the other patients — a recovering stroke victim — who had, he said, been rude to him.

The police were called and Alexander was thrown out of the hostel and put up in a hotel. As he now confesses, he was like 'a dog on heat' and went on a rampage through the hotel completely naked, looking for sex. Again the police were called. This time, he spent the night in a cell.

Alexander then lived with us, but we couldn't cope. He would walk through the house naked and aroused.

A big improvement came when Alexander was prescribed a beta-blocker, which calmed him and took the edge off his violence and sexual risk-taking.

But he's still very 'over-sexed'. It's like a hidden agenda which is always on his mind. Sadly, this is unlikely to change. He is, though, a lot better than he was.

He has learned to treat women as more than objects. Once, when he was in rehab, he took a bus and saw a girl he liked the look of. He moved from the front to the back so that he could spend the journey staring at her breasts. I hope, and believe, he now realises this sort of behaviour is inappropriate.

Perhaps one day he will meet a girl with whom he can settle down, and who will love him the way he is, just like we do.

WOW!!! :shock: That's messed up.

hmmmmmm....i have no idea what to think of this article...

Hey, I'm not the one who loves foreign girls....

PEE WEE, we found you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

"Redrouster" wrote:

PEE WEE, we found you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

lol :lol:

moving down a buss to stare at a wonderful bust does not seem so far off end to me... course.. i do luv them lovely lady lumps.

the running around the house naked.. not soooo far out there.

well.. good luck to the guy on finding a compassionate nymhomaniac gf.

DiGiTaL

My father would be good friends with him.

"cajunvike" wrote:

Hey, I'm not the one who loves foreign girls....

Who are you trying to fool?

You love anything good looking that wears a thong that moves.

And I'm pretty sure if they are redheads, they don't have to even move. :razz:

[img]...he took a bus and saw a girl he liked the look of. He moved from the front to the back so that he could spend the journey staring at her breasts.[/img]

You could put most guys into that category.