Thread: Girl advise.

Alright I'm not usually the type of person to ask random people for advise but I would like some advise.

About 3 weeks ago my girlfriend and I split up, she beat me to the punch but it was pretty much agreed upon that it would be better if we broke up. Well everything is going gravy, just kicking it with my pals and what not. Well my pal's g/f b-day happened about a week and a half ago and I met one of her pals and we totally hit it off and talked most of the night, about baseball and other things that we had common interests in. Well my b-day was about a week ago and my friend's g/f's friend showed up to my b-day. I got absolutely hammered, gave her my number and kissed her before she left. I found out later that she wasn't expecting me to kiss her but she wasn't upset. She called me a couple of days after my birthday and left me her number on my answering machine. I called her back and we had a good talk and everything. Well a couple of days later I asked her she would like to get the group together or if she'd like to do anything later in the week and she said she'd like to do something as a group. Well it doesn't look like the group gathering is going to happen anytime soon.

So my question is should I wait since it's only been about 3 weeks since I broke up with my ex or should I just play it by ear and see what happens?Thanks in advance

so you kissed and gave your number to your friends girlfriend?

stay away from that lol


unless you worded it wrong and meant that you kissed your pal's g/f's friend lol, in which case you'd get a whole different set of advice


but i have a penis, you dont want my imput

"Vikes_King" wrote:

so you kissed and gave your number to your friends girlfriend?

stay away from that lol


unless you worded it wrong and meant that you kissed your pal's g/f's friend lol, in which case you'd get a whole different set of advice


but i have a *****, you dont want my imput

I guess I worded it wrong. It's my friend's g/f friend

k, thats what i figured

another question that helps, how long were you with your last girlfriend

WBLBabe is the resident counselor for advice related to women.

I would hang tight and see what transpires. There are plenty of women out there, especially in Albuquerque. No rush, you don't want to appear desperate...even if you are. :lol:

"Vikes_King" wrote:

k, thats what i figured

another question that helps, how long were you with your last girlfriend

2 years but she broke up with me a couple of times and I took her back. :???: Still not a 100% why I did that though.

"Prophet" wrote:

WBLBabe is the resident counselor for advice related to women.

I would hang tight and see what transpires. There are plenty of women out there, especially in Albuquerque. No rush, you don't want to appear desperate...even if you are. :lol:

I'm not desperate but this girl is so unbelievably awesome that it would suck if I sat on my hands while I might of have a shot :???:

Well I would try to convince the group to get back together sometime in the next two weeks or so. If you don't then she might think you forgot about her and move on or something. Keep it at a steady pace. Don't take it too fast but if an opportunity arises then go for it. Not in like a sexual way.. sorry I cant word that any better.

if it was mutual, go for it my man, i would

"mnvikes61" wrote:

"Prophet" wrote:

WBLBabe is the resident counselor for advice related to women.

I would hang tight and see what transpires. There are plenty of women out there, especially in Albuquerque. No rush, you don't want to appear desperate...even if you are. :lol:

I'm not desperate but this girl is so unbelievably awesome that it would suck if I sat on my hands while I might of have a shot :???:

You just answered your own question. Ask her out.