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    8 Types Of Guys Women Avoid

    I thought this was a fun article.
    Do the PP.O women agree with all of these, or are there some missing?

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    8 Types Of Guys Women Avoid
    By Andrea Madison
    Relationship Correspondent - Every 2nd Monday

    Have you ever wondered if the way you act makes women cringe? Have you ever worried that your behavior might be making them run in the other direction?
    Just as women are attracted to certain archetypal men, there are other types of men that women go out of their way to avoid. And this is especially true during the early stages of a relationship, when a woman is trying to gauge a man's personality.

    Below are eight types of guys that women consistently stay away from. I have compiled this list from conversations I've had with numerous women regarding the behaviors they dislike in men.

    But don't worry if you recognize some of the following traits in yourself -- most of them aren't deal-breakers. The idea here is not to change your personality, but rather to keep certain female-unfriendly behaviors in check. Read on to find out what women dislike, so you'll be able to make a better impression next time around.

    1. The Needy Guy
    He is overly emotional and shares all his feelings with her right away. The Needy Guy also doubts himself and needs constant reassurance about his relationship, work and friendships.

    Why he is so unappealing: Confidence and independence are very sexy traits in a man -- insecurity and dependence are not. Most women look for a strong partner they can lean on. So if you are always leaning on her -- especially in the early stages of a relationship -- she might doubt your ability to do this. And since women tend to come into relationships with all sorts of insecurities, she won't want to deal with yours as well as her own.

    What to do if you're that guy: Timing is everything, so you just need to keep your feelings in check at the beginning of the relationship. Try to hold off on sharing all your feelings or divulging your insecurities. Once you are far enough along in the relationship, you can share as much as you want. By that point, she'll appreciate knowing what's on your mind.

    2. The Predictable Guy
    Women don't like the Predictable Guy because they know exactly how he'll react to everything. He follows formulas and never wants to do anything differently. For example, he'd never surprise a woman by spontaneously taking her out for the night.

    Why he is so unappealing: Women look for a certain amount of unpredictability in a man -- they want a free spirit. This is why some women seem to be drawn to the notorious "bad boy." It's not that they are drawn to his badness exactly, but rather to his unpredictability.

    How to avoid being predictable, arrogant, boorish, and more What to do if you're that guy: You don't have to be "bad" or a completely free spirit to win her over. But try to mix things up -- particularly at the beginning of a relationship. Call her and tell her you want to go to the countryside for the day, or for an impromptu meal. After she gets to know you, she won't mind as much if you slip back into your routine a bit. But don't forget to continue to surprise her once in a while -- doing so will keep the relationship fresh.

    3. The Arrogant Guy
    He has a huge ego and he's condescending. He is also rude -- not necessarily to her, but to anyone he perceives as beneath him. And that's just as bad as being rude directly to her.

    Why he is so unappealing: A woman often looks at how a man treats other people to assess his personality. So even though you might be nice to her on a date, she'll be paying attention to how you act with other people too.

    What to do if you're that guy: No woman wants to be talked down to, so I shouldn't have to tell you to shed the ego when you are dealing with her directly. But in order to really impress her, you need to treat everyone around you with a certain amount of respect -- because she'll be watching.

    4. The Boorish Guy
    The Boorish Guy doesn't try to hide the fact that he's checking out other women while in her presence; he flirts with the waitress and he even goes as far as to brag about his past conquests. Overall, he lacks respect for women.

    Why he is so unappealing: Not only is this type of behavior infuriating, it can also be bad for a woman's self-esteem. If you act like this when you are first getting to know a woman, you won't stand a chance.

    What to do if you're that guy: If you can't curb this kind of behavior permanently, then you at least have to keep it in check when making a first impression. Keep your flirting and wandering eyes at bay -- and maybe eventually it'll become a habit. Because, truthfully, if you introduce this kind of behavior into a relationship at any point, she won't be pleased.

    5. The Cheap Guy
    He invites a woman to dinner and then subtly suggests they go Dutch. He never splurges to buy her flowers and he always opts for the cheapest wine. He makes her feel like they're on a tight budget from the very first date.

    Why he is so unappealing: Your first few dates should always be carefree; the words "saving" and "budget" shouldn't come up. If she spends the first date picturing a lifetime of penny-pinching with you, you're out of luck.

    What to do if you're that guy: Loosen up the purse strings a little when you're courting a woman. You don't need to spend a fortune to make a good impression, but you do need to make her feel like she's special. Flowers are a nice touch once in a while.

    Don't argue all the time, act holier-than-thou or talk trash about women if you want a second date...

    6. The Arguer
    This type of guy turns every conversation into an argument. When he takes a woman out, he makes her feel like she's in debate class rather than on a date. And in doing so, he makes her feel defensive and self-conscious.

    Why he is so unappealing: A date should be a pleasant experience, but if she's on the defensive the whole time, she will not be enjoying herself. Remember this: Constant arguing and debating is a stress -- and you certainly don't want her to associate you with a stressful experience.

    What to do if you're that guy: Most importantly, relax. If you are this type of guy, you probably revert to debating because you are nervous or unsure of what to say. So before the date, brainstorm conversation topics and questions you can ask her. That way, you won't be as likely to revert to arguing during lulls in the conversation.

    7. The Self-Righteous Guy
    This guy is very judgmental of others. He probably doesn't drink or smoke, and he doesn't hesitate to tell others to follow suit. From the very first date, he'll preach to a woman, telling her she shouldn't drink wine or get dessert.

    Why he is so unappealing: No one wants to be judged, especially on a date. She'll just find it annoying and rude.

    What to do if you're that guy: You can preach a little once you are actually in a relationship. But until that point, her drinking, smoking and dessert-eating habits are none of your business.

    8. The Misogynist
    This guy makes no secret of his bitterness toward women. On a date, he can't help but exude negativity toward his companion and the entire female gender by making rude and insulting comments.

    Why he is so unappealing: This is the only type of behavior on this list that is, in fact, a total deal-breaker. And it's not surprising. What woman do you know that would like to be in a relationship with a man like this?

    What to do if you're that guy: You need to reconsider your attitude if you are this type of guy. This type of behavior is not only rude and nasty, it is often the last straw in breaking up a relationship.

    Don't stress out too much if you see yourself on the list above. But do remember this: These are behaviors that women look out for at the beginning of a relationship. So if you want to put your best foot forward and make a good impression, study the list and make sure to keep these female-unfriendly behaviors to a minimum.
    Get your facts first, and then you can distort them as much as you please. Mark Twain

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    Re: 8 Types Of Guys Women Avoid

    But don't worry if you recognize some of the following traits in yourself -- most of them aren't deal-breakers. The idea here is not to change your personality, but rather to keep certain female-unfriendly behaviors in check. Read on to find out what women dislike, so you'll be able to make a better impression next time around.
    AHA! I knew it. ;D

    Keep them in check F O R E V E R.

    The author forgot about the LAZY guy. You know, the pampered little twit who never had to lift a finger growing up. They are the worst!

    Otherwise, pretty accurate list.


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    Re: 8 Types Of Guys Women Avoid

    "Freya" wrote:
    But don't worry if you recognize some of the following traits in yourself -- most of them aren't deal-breakers. The idea here is not to change your personality, but rather to keep certain female-unfriendly behaviors in check. Read on to find out what women dislike, so you'll be able to make a better impression next time around.
    AHA! I knew it. ;D

    Keep them in check F O R E V E R.

    The author forgot about the LAZY guy. You know, the pampered little twit who never had to lift a finger growing up. They are the worst!

    Otherwise, pretty accurate list.

    SO TRUE FREYA! The kind of guy that invites you to dinner at his parents house and expects you to help his mom with the dishes while he sits on his ass. It takes years of work to reverse that trait.

    I'm exercising my ass by doing flexing exercises while typing. Prophet 3:42pm March 16, 2007
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    Re: 8 Types Of Guys Women Avoid

    See and yet there are very few kinds of women men avoid and most of those reasons can be cured with alcohol.


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    Re: 8 Types Of Guys Women Avoid

    6 out of 8, oh I get it this is not a test....

    how the hell did I ever get married?
    something witty and comical... followed by genuine sarcasm.

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    Re: 8 Types Of Guys Women Avoid

    "countrygirl" wrote:
    "Freya" wrote:
    But don't worry if you recognize some of the following traits in yourself -- most of them aren't deal-breakers. The idea here is not to change your personality, but rather to keep certain female-unfriendly behaviors in check. Read on to find out what women dislike, so you'll be able to make a better impression next time around.
    AHA! I knew it. ;D

    Keep them in check F O R E V E R.

    The author forgot about the LAZY guy. You know, the pampered little twit who never had to lift a finger growing up. They are the worst!

    Otherwise, pretty accurate list.

    SO TRUE FREYA! The kind of guy that invites you to dinner at his parents house and expects you to help his mom with the dishes while he sits on his jiggly butt. It takes years of work to reverse that trait.
    Where are you meeting your men countrygirl?

    It still amazes me how many guys who are arrogant, boorish, arguing, self-righteous, misogynists (all at once) constantly have girlfriends.
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    Re: 8 Types Of Guys Women Avoid

    "Bdubya" wrote:
    "countrygirl" wrote:
    "Freya" wrote:
    But don't worry if you recognize some of the following traits in yourself -- most of them aren't deal-breakers. The idea here is not to change your personality, but rather to keep certain female-unfriendly behaviors in check. Read on to find out what women dislike, so you'll be able to make a better impression next time around.
    AHA! I knew it. ;D

    Keep them in check F O R E V E R.

    The author forgot about the LAZY guy. You know, the pampered little twit who never had to lift a finger growing up. They are the worst!

    Otherwise, pretty accurate list.

    SO TRUE FREYA! The kind of guy that invites you to dinner at his parents house and expects you to help his mom with the dishes while he sits on his jiggly butt. It takes years of work to reverse that trait.
    Where are you meeting your men countrygirl?

    It still amazes me how many guys who are arrogant, boorish, arguing, self-righteous, misogynists (all at once) constantly have girlfriends.
    Yeah, girlfriends that are...insecure, dazzled by BS or money or looks or popularity of the guy, and convinced that they are the one that can "change" this jerk into the perfect guy!

    Those two types of people deserve each other...and I have no sympathy for them!
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    Re: 8 Types Of Guys Women Avoid

    Girls don't like boys. Girls like cars and money.

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    Re: 8 Types Of Guys Women Avoid

    "baumy300" wrote:
    Girls don't like boys. Girls like cars and money.
    You forgot one thing, girls like to make boys go broke and take everything they have.
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    Re: 8 Types Of Guys Women Avoid

    damn,
    I'm guy 2,3,6,7 & 8
    I'm doomed...
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